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Use it or Lose it?

Use it or Lose it?

Clearly it has been awhile since my last post…although with good reason, and I can’t wait to share the whole story of us potentially adopting a baby.  But not today.  (Cheer up, I’ll have so much time to edit that story you will be thankful 

The Ezekiel Effect

The Ezekiel Effect

I like to think of God’s “attractive” attributes: loving- kind- merciful- benevolent. I like the verses that say God “plans to give us a hope and a future”, not to harm us. (Jeremiah 29:11) Or “if God is for us, who can be against us?” 

Why Wait

Why Wait

Give me a goal I want badly enough and I will spend every necessary spare minute getting to that goal.  When we were trying to figure out how to adopt I was making phone calls and emails like crazy.  I set up meetings. Even a 

A-N-G-E-R Does Not Spell “LOVE”

A-N-G-E-R Does Not Spell “LOVE”

I knew “LOVE” wasn’t spelled that way… A long while ago I was frustrated with someone.  I wasn’t sure I agreed with what they were doing (because cleeeaarly I have all of life’s answers) and I cared enough about them that I really didn’t want 

The Parent Dare

The Parent Dare

So many parenting books are theoretical- “this is what you can expect from a newborn who has night and day confused, this is behavior you might expect from a stubborn toddler when you take away his treat”, etc.  But what we really need is a 

The Secret Life of a Stay-At-Home-Mom

The Secret Life of a Stay-At-Home-Mom

Mom. It’s a wonderful role.  But when you stay at home any number of days with your kids, sometimes the daily things become a bit monotonous.  We say children have active imaginations, but I’d like to think we stay-at-home Moms and Dads let our imaginations 

Q & __ (When I Can’t Find the Answers)

Q & __ (When I Can’t Find the Answers)

One thing I’m not sure I was fully prepared for with parenthood is all the questions.  Kids ask all kinds of questions- deep probing ones about why things work- about God or prayer, “Why do you keep praying for that every day, Mommy?”;  innocuous questions 

Walk With the Wise

Walk With the Wise

So I was with a friend talking this week and she said something that struck me as profound.  Thinking back, all she really did was tell a personal piece of her story that was not actually meant to be advice to me in all likelihood. 

I’ll Never Regret…

I’ll Never Regret…

I’ll never regret giving up money that goes to sponsor a child in an impoverished community- even if giving only makes me realize how much more is needed.   I’ll never regret holding my tongue in an argument and compromising, even if I feel entitled 

Save Your Marriage with Bad Day Points

Save Your Marriage with Bad Day Points

Life is just difficult sometimes, and in a marriage I’ve quickly learned that both myself and my husband have down days.  The real problem is when we both have a down day on the same day.  It’s one thing if he comes home from work